8 Reality check your thoughts
If you’re depressed, negative thoughts go with the territory. However, they are rarely grounded in reality.
Once you’ve identified a negative thought, ask yourself, “Where is the evidence that I’m the most despicable human being on the entire earth?” There probably isn’t any.
“You can’t just be rattling these thoughts back and forth and saying they’re true,” says Blackburn. “You have to come up with some solid evidence.”
And if you’re worried about what people are thinking about you, go ahead and ask them.
